Laura Borrowdale
Reflections on Living Over the Fence From New Zealand’s Worst Mass Shooting
"Yesterday someone else drove up my driveway. And they took much more than just a parking space or a peach."
When You’re a Sexologist Sex Is Work But You Also Have Two-Hour Orgasms
We spoke to Juliet Allen about redefining how we do and talk about sex.
Are New Zealanders a Bit Crap at Sex?
We don't stack up particularly well when it comes to performance or protection.
Being a Horse Reiki Master Takes You to Some Dark Places
"If the horse is releasing an emotion from anger, or it's releasing from a reaction to something a human's done, that can be quite uncomfortable."
Trans and Genderqueer People on the Awkwardness of Changing Names
"Hearing the barista call my new name out was a safe way to test it with strangers."
Outrage at Aaron Smith's Toilet Sex Says a Lot About Kiwi Prudishness
Who was worse? The famous rugby player having sex in an airport toilet or the dad recording it on his phone?
Surprise! Teachers Around the World Are Messing Up Sex Ed
A new global report has just highlighted what I—as a high school teacher in New Zealand—could have announced years ago.
Just to Be Clear, Saying You’re On the Pill Does Not Mean Consent
What we can learn from the rape case against New Zealand cricketer Scott Kuggeleijn who took "I'm on the pill" for "let's fuck."