It would be wrong not to begin with a classic example of one well-documented fart fetishist: Novelist, poet, and author of Ulysses, James Augustine Aloysius Joyce. He penned these words in a letter to his darling wife Nora in 1909:"To intensify the experience of viewing porn, I would touch my butt and smell my finger. It felt like I was smelling the dirtiness of the video"
It’s not known what started the fetish for Joyce, or if he was a fan of all farts or Nora’s alone. But for modern-day fart lovers, the allure often begins in their formative years. And being online certainly helps that self-discovery.You had an arse full of farts that night, darling, and I fucked them out of you, big fat fellows, long windy ones, quick little merry cracks and a lot of tiny little naughty farties ending in a long gush from your hole. It is wonderful to fuck a farting woman when every fuck drives one out of her. I think I would know Nora’s fart anywhere. I think I could pick hers out in a roomful of farting women. It is a rather girlish noise not like the wet windy fart which I imagine fat wives have. It is sudden and dry and dirty like what a bold girl would let off in fun in a school dormitory at night. I hope Nora will let off no end of her farts in my face so that I may know their smell also.
“Fetishes, in general, can start for many reasons, such as an early crush who farts and the anxiety/embarrassment can transform into arousal (which is called sexual imprinting), or during sex if someone farts and it’s connected to high arousal (such as right before orgasm) it can become fetishistic as well,” she said. “Another idea is that a beautiful female having a ‘disgusting’ side makes it mysterious and arousing at the same time and can attract a man who has an expectation of beauty—ironically.”Justin Lehmiller, a research fellow at The Kinsey Institute and author of Tell Me What You Want, told me in an email that for some, he suspects fart fetishism is a learned behavior. “Many sexual fetishes are learned through classical conditioning, in which a neutral stimulus comes to be sexually arousing as a result of repeated pairing with an arousing stimulus,” he said (i.e., the case of the gassy crush). “Other fetishes can be learned through positive reinforcement: if you engage in some behavior and experience a particularly powerful orgasm, that reward will lead you to want to repeat the behavior.”“If you’re around the person you love and can’t fart, that is really a shame"